Turning 60 was my catalyst. I knew I had to make the last trimester of my life count. Marriage number one, thirty years before, had left me alone with a tiny baby, prolonged grief and a shattered sense of self. And here I was again in the final throes of a 23-year partnership.
I’d spent a lifetime working on my personal growth. I am a Business Role Player specialising in Courageous Conversations, a facilitator; an actress and observer; a reflexologist; Reiki Master; a mother; the wise go-to well-worn shoulder to cry on. Yet I just ‘couldn’t get a committed relationship right’. I always ended up voiceless and silent.
Enter Conscious Uncoupling: tough, profound, and transformational. It took enormous courage and a river of tears but, as I stood face-to-face with myself, I left the victim in the wings and for the first time ever, reclaimed my voice. Now I am centre-stage in my life. I am lighter, braver, and wiser.
I am the first certified Conscious Uncoupling Coach in Southern Africa, mentored and trained by Katherine herself. I am ready to hold and support you, wherever you are in the world, as you journey forward to reclaim your heartsong and self.
Becoming a Parent Team Expert has brought even more skills together for me, focusing on the whole the family, beyond the grief of the couple. The voice of the child can be heard and the best decisions facilitated and made for their future too.
